Not Your Average Bridal Registry

Tips for creating a slightly different type of bridal registry.

Traditionally, as an engaged couple looking to create a bridal registry, you would start at your favorite department store and list the household items that you want.  Your registry may include toasters, blenders, and salt and pepper shakers.  Then your guests would access the registry, purchase something off of it, and give as their gift.  The whole idea of a bridal registry is great because it allows guests to purchase something that you want and need while reducing the chances of getting two of the same gift.

Today, however, couples are typically waiting until they are a little older and more established in their careers before walking down the isle.  If that is the case, then the couple probably already has established their own separate household and may not need another toaster or blender.  So would they want to still create a bridal registry? 

Of course, today’s bridal registry is not just about setting up a household but about helping create your married life.   People tend live life as a single person much differently than as a married one.  For example, singles may prefer getting together with friends at the local sports bar and married couples may prefer entertaining at home.  Singles may not put as much effort into making a house a home because they have no one to share it with.   A home for a married couple is different and more intimate because it’s a place where they will grow and bond as a unit.  With that in mind, your bridal registry should be about helping create your life as a couple.  For example, if you envision elaborate weekly or monthly dinner parties then you may include items that will make entertaining possible.   Your list may focus on dishware and serving platters that will showcase your entertaining talents. 

If preparing gourmet meals together is the thing for you, then create a registry that has unusual kitchen gadgets, restaurant quality knives, and elegant copper pots. 

Perhaps you and your fiancé are in the market to buy or maybe have recently purchased your first home.  In this case, a bridal registry at a home improvement store would be ideal.  Although lawn mowers, power tools, and paint aren’t real romantic they are expensive and would go along way to helping create your first home. 

The key is to sit down and brainstorm what is important to you as a couple.  With all the options available today, decide what you need, what will enhance your life, and what help you begin the marriage of your dreams.  Then together find the place that will somehow be able to help you get all three.

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