When I am Persisting confusion of marrying him?

What? Are you kidding to me? You want to marry me? You know what is takes? It means a lot of commitment , trust and mutual respect. And I think most of the things are missing in our relationship. Love marriage is not the label which I would love to stick on it. Rather it would be the marriage of adjustment. Well these heavy word words can infuriate anybody on their shoes. But friends this the truth especially when the confusion persist for getting married to the person you are roaming a lo...

What? Are you kidding to me? You want to marry me? You know what is takes? It means a lot of commitment, trust and mutual respect. And I think most of the things are missing in our relationship. Love marriage is not the label which I would love to stick on it. Rather it would be the marriage of adjustment. Well these heavy word words can infuriate anybody on their shoes. But friends this the truth especially when the confusion persist for getting married to the person you are roaming a lot but still the decision of getting marries scares you like anything. Why this confusion – It is most agonizing question to be put in front of the people and for girls it really matters a lot. They are emotional by nature and it may happen that they have fallen in love with some other guy and that’s why the idea of getting married with some other is definitely a pain.But you should be happy for yourself that you are at-least few of the people who can able to make out that the guy you are getting married is not the one who you love and that’s why the mere idea of marriage is scaring you like anything. What I strongly belief that if you are not comfortable with the relationship then let it go. Tension for the future – Yes at times the love marriage can a matter of tension to you as you are prepared to get married to the guy you are seeing. This confusion may have arisen out of your own confusion about your life and love or may be because the guy you are seeing is not interested in getting married. You may be pushing to convert your love into love marriage and it may happen that your parents are putting pressure on you to get married. But trust me all these things are very irrelevant if you are in serious love with the guy and this feeling should be there in his heart also. What is love marriage – Naturally all of you must be interested to know that what love marriage is. Love marriage is getting into the permanent relationship with the person you love. It is about giving a name to your relationship which you have been craving for a long time. Love marriage only happens when then of love and understanding is very strong and you are pretty serious about each other. Once that is clear that you are in love then it leaves no space for any confusion to get on to ahead in life. So the clarity of each others liking and your own choice matters a lot. There is no harm in love marriage and forget about the statistical figures also. If you are pretty clear about your motive and heart then go for love marriage as it would go to give you intense solace in the world that yes you have ultimately taken the decision for your life and then there should not be any regrets.

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